Originally Posted By: markhaving probs
D,

Good stuff here for antlers and a good reminder to me also. Thank you.


Well, all I can say is that it's our only intent in showing the WAS spouse how much we hurt and miss them and want them to come back.

But, reality is in most cases this translates to you're weak and can't emotionally help yourself, how can you help them? And in extreme cases (suicide threats especially) can be translated as pathetic and quicly drive them into the arms a OP.

Furhermore on any suicide talk, FORGET IT!!! You lived without your H/W before and you can again. Not only if worse comes to worse and you don't save the M, any slightest inkling of it WILL come back to haunt you in the event of D especially where kids are involved. My STBX found lyrics I wrote and construed them as a "suicide note" and really screwed things up right now for me and my kids.

EDIT - If you are in fact having suicidal thoughts, GET HELP NOW!
There is no shame in getting help, none what so ever, that's why it's there.

Last edited by dday101798; 04/08/09 03:08 PM.
Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11