the more I read about what's happening to you guys, the more it makes my stomach sick, I'm not angry at you guys but to be honest I am a little angry with your wives (or how about spouses who choose to have affairs when they are in committed relationships/marriages)
Your wives have gotten used to the idea that ending their marriages & getting divorces is their decision to make - they have this idea because you have given them this power indirectly, you continuously tell them through body language and indirect discussion that it's ok for you to be doing what you're doing to me.
