yeah I know the feeling. My friends and family, even H's family, although they wish we could have worked out have also kind of given up. I feel so uncomfortable now talking with my family about H, forget about even talking about saving my M. They still love my H, i know they do but they are tired of the situation. We're here for you.
Yeap, I wish I could get H to figure things out sooner but I've tried so many things and I know I can't. So I feel kinda lost and unsure of my M as well. Hang in there.