First of all, I want to say I really feel your pain. This is so difficult--I know how it feels to love someone who's not loving you back. I think Phoenixdeux makes some good points about what's attractive about the OM. At this point, you've really got to find a way to move on with your life. Very hard, I know, but it must be done. You may or may not ever get your W back, but you can't just sit around waiting forever. She's made her decision, now it's time for you to make yours. Her affair will more than likely explode in her face. Let's face it, you have two adulterers getting together--how do you think that will turn out? They don't have a chance in hell at lasting. That's the truth and I can say that with confidence. They are creating a relationship that is completely outside of the blessings of God, so it will not last. Have confidence in that. I just don't know if your W deserves you back when she comes to her senses.
