I was working out in front of the mirror the other day without a shirt on (please don't think this was a vanity thing). I had some music playing that was quite loud, I was singing along doing the weights when all of a sudden my wife came walking in and said something like "look at you working out in front of the mirror, music blaring out, anybody would thing you were a teenager or batchelor the way you're acting". It was all said in a demeaning way but it is the first thing she has said about ME in ages. I have definately changed my body shape and am looking pretty good, she has never said anything but she must know as friends of mine have noticed but she refuses to acknowledge it which actually makes me smile. Yesterday, the D papers turned up and she asked me to look at them, so things are heading down the D road at the moment. I was just sort of thankful for a small victory in a very painful road.


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years