The adventure continues--part 2

[AFWAW]

Ok, asked my daughter if she was going to call the wife last night and she said no? I said, how come? She said I'm still upset with her. So, we went out and jumped on the trampoline for a while and she was in a better mood soon. Well, I asked her again if she was going to call and she said yeah, I'll call. Well I didn't know the details of the call till I went to tuck my daughter in. It wasn't that good. My daughter told me that the wife gave her crap about her grades and basically bitched at her the whole time and tried to act like nothing was wrong. Now I know I didn't hear what the wife said so I am trying to keep an open mind. My daughter was crying and told me that she still is afraid of the wife? Ugh--this isn't going to be easy either way. I reassured my daughter that everything would be fine and we would get through it. I called the wife as she had indicated that I do earlier and talked with her a few minutes. No mention of reconcilliation and a bunch of bitching about my daughter and how and what I was making he do and making her not do. Again, this is not going to be easy either way. There are some obvious anger issues here to deal with. I did not argue--I just listened and validated.

Like I indicated in my previous posts, I am not trying to get excited either way. We'll have to see what her next move is. I can speculate all day as to what she's done and be way off. My question is, if she's done something that I need to do some major forgiving for, then why is she acting like she's the queen bee when she doesn't even live here? Like I said, there are some obvious anger issues that need to be addressed through counseling and I need to continue to prepare myself in the event that this isn't going to work out.