HI BND, just wanted to let you know how glad I am that your son is going to be ok !!!! Bless him...
You asked me a question on my thread...I just wanted to give you the answer....
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Well, BND....
H sent me an email today....asking me if I had time to get together with him this week, to 'settle' some things... I know he means talk about divorce, because he has said it in exactly those words each time before.
I asked him what he wanted to talk about, and if it was something serious, or I should worry...he said, 'no, but we always say we're going to put things down on paper, and we never do, so I thought, we could get together again...'
So, to answer your question..."what would your H do if you told him you were ready for him to go ahead and initiate divorce"... well, I think he would initiate yes. He still wants out, and to be honest, I don't think he'll ever want back in...
Yes, I'm ready to live my life, and I love doing so right now.... however being married keeps me and the kids in a finacially comfortable position...and I especially want the kids to have all they would have had (in possibilities and comfort) as they would have had, had we stayed together...
I hope that doesn't sound selfish or materialistic.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
