thanks guys again... like i said my wife could be attracted by other men or a man but i believe nothing has happened, the temptation obviously will be there while she is out partying, she did say to me last week that if i do end up meeting someone that im not to take anyone back to HER home, how could she even think im interested in anybody else, i want to fight for this marriage and i know its going to be a long hard slog, but i will put my all into it and i wont give up beacuse i truly believe were are meant to be together forever, i know she has feelings for me but she is very very confused, without your help i wont make it, thank you all