Of course we like it silly!!! \:\) What is not to like!?! You have God glowing all around you!

I think you have made the right decision. Just decide those boundaries, and just be calm delivering them. If you remember what I would do with my H, I would first ask him what he thought was acceptable, or what he expected, then I would hear him out, and then I would tell him how I felt. When you let THEM tell you what should be expected first, they usually will say what you want to hear. When you TELL someone what they SHOULD do, or WILL do, you will most often get a rebellious reaction.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."