Separated but keeping the Faith

[jaguilar]

You know I was thinking the same thing too. Her anger and frustrations...I know when we had "the talk", I got the I'm not where I'm supposed to be speech. But it was like someone else told her what to say. It's like she was blaming me and the kids for her not being where she thought she should be.

Things happen when you have kids, a house and bills to pay. It seems that a lot changed or she changed when she went back home for her 20 yr reunion in 07. I thought I did good by surprising her, she seemed genuinely excited to see me. We had a great time.

I don't know. I get the feeling she wants to talk but is scared to open up. I don't blame her, we were mean to each other. But there comes a time when you have to put up or shut up.

There is a lot at stake here and the kids are in the middle. She can't always think about herself, right?

But I was burned the last time she said she needed help with money and then she went out with her friends that one weekend.

I mean come on, priorities?