You know WAWs are a funny bunch. I remember back when I was trying to use logic against what she was doing with OM (before reading DR) I told her you know you are just a rebound for him since he is getting divorced after 11yrs and when the need for your cushion is gone you will be too. Her response...I can't believe that because if I did I would have to admit to myself that's what he is for me. I was dumbfounded by that response...