I will add to your thread only a note to say hello and you are not alone. I am right there with you. I cannot offer advice as I am trying desperately to get it myself.

There are many great people that will help you. Listen to them and I will follow your story to see if I can gain from watching your journey.

Good luck.

Me - 35
W - 32 (EA with OM)
M - 13 1/2
D - 11
S - 9
ILYBNILWY - January 2009
Status - Limbo