Maybe it's called guilt, guilt guilt. I know early on after my H left, he would come over when I wasn't home & take things. But, then I know I made more of an issue back then. Could be too that they all hold memories, & what a better way of escaping them ....

Even when we were simply best friends, we always said hello & goodbye with a peck kiss on the lips. What is a tongue sarnie??? Is that like what I call a "move star kiss" ;\) Anyway, it wasn't a quick peck, (like our last few meetings) it was just a tad bit longer than that & about 3-5 kisses in total & not really romantic. Enough info for you - Ali \:\)

Yes, we were both quite comfortable with each other. Just having fun enjoying each other's company. At one point he got or we got me laughing so hard, I was about to cry. Hadn't done that with him in ages! He told me that his drunk neighbor came over at 10pm to give him some mail that came in his neighbors box. My H was sleeping woke up to banging on the door. So he grabbed his sword & answered the door. I told him he should have put on his suite of armor (yes, he has a real suite of armor), anyway he said well, that takes about 2 hours to put on. H said I guess I could have yelled for the guy to wait a minute, until I got my armor on!. Then I said maybe you should have answered the door with your sword & helmet on, then H added & had my shield too!

Aaaaahhhhh, maybe ... ya just had to be there to find this all funny .... but it was \:\) Can you imagine, someone out in the suburbs answering their door with a a full or half suite of armor on!!!!!!!

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)