The amends was a spiritual LEAP for you and Bless you for doing it. Doesn't matter about h or what he's thinking/doing blah blah blah YOU just made God smile and your son got the best B-day gift ever, and YOU GREW!!!
THAT'S A WIN WIN...and the "art" of DBing is seeing these life lessons as victories even if our "other battle" isn't won, the "war within" is won...make sense? The irony of course is that the more amends you make (real ones, not the kind you should not be making but the ones God would want) the better woman you become and ALL your R's improve in some way...sometimes even all the way...
Wacky but true. Good for you.
((( j )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
