Pearl - Please don't give up on me. I get it in life more than I am suggesting here. I am really testing my ideas here to see where I am at. Don't give up on me.

I am NOT giving up on my marriage, not in any way. I am not!

I have read the book and the posts here. I get it, but still need work. I am doing things for myself. I am giving her my attention how I want to, meaning I am trying not to walk on eggshells. I am being the person I am with the new tools and understanding I have gained from books and people here.

I get it... detaching is not giving up. I will not give up.

Please - don't give up on me.

Me - 35
W - 32 (EA with OM)
M - 13 1/2
D - 11
S - 9
ILYBNILWY - January 2009
Status - Limbo