Yes, she assumed that if there was spyware it must have come from me (along with 300-odd cookies...).
In re: @Coach, I'm not sure I can tell her those things. First, she doesn't want to hear them; second, don't those sort of bust the DB rule-book, so to speak?; third, she says quite plainly there IS no marriage. In fact, during the tirade, there was a couple "we're NOT a couple anymore!" declarations re: Signore Schmuckatelli.