Just came across this thread - very similar to my situation - I think my husband is having a huge MLC. It sucks.
Jerri

M 50 years old
WAH 47 years old
T 24 years/M23 years
S (first marriage) 30
D 22
S21
Bomb 04/02 I hate you
Moved out 04/02
No contact at all

Jerri
Me 50
WAH 47
M 23 years
D 22
S 21
S 30 (previous marriage)
B 02/09 marriage is over
S 02/09 NC