Hi Cinders,

Thank you for posting to me.

I hope that you and your H can work something out. I can imagine that it will be difficult and emotional. I will keep you in my thoughts.
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however being married keeps me and the kids in a finacially comfortable position...and I especially want the kids to have all they would have had (in possibilities and comfort) as they would have had, had we stayed together...
I don't think you are materialistic at all.

Take care and have a good day tomorrow. xxx