thank you robx.. ive taken everything on board and your absolutley right on everything your saying, not sure about the affair beacuse she is adamant there is noone else but they all say that, however i do beleive her, i do reckon the temptation is there somewhere beacuse the nights out and stuff, so she will be flirting with the guys and has probably even got to know a few, you say there are things i can do? i would love to know. and yes the more information i can get the better, yes the truth hurts but a least i can try and deal with it. look forward to hearing from you robx, thanks again
