I wouldn't offer any help let her ask. I know I probably drove my W farther away by constantly asking if she needed help, she always said no...It wasn't till I stopped offering that she started asking.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
