Test # 1 and Test # 2...doesn't matter if they were on her part or not they certainly were for you, as in you saw them as tests...
Learning that you were codependant...holy crap!! That takes some hard guts to realize that, most people don't, most people cannot realize that they are copedendant...not without someone else telling them...long count for the joke to sink in.
F-ing A man, well done.
Answer honestly please, how do you feel now compared to a month ago?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK