We were having a long distance relationship and I was enjoying the progress we were making. Wife was planning to come visit, we were talking about ourselves in the future tense. Still no promise but it really looked good. She told me she needed me.
One day I had a really bad day and wanted to hear her voice but then I realized that she was most likely w/ other man. I thought that was over. True she never said so but I thought that since she was so into talking about us like she had been that I could assume.
I confronted again and she told me the truth. She said she is trying to break it off with him. She says she loves me and wants to have a family with me and does not feel this way with him.
I finally said I have had enough. I told her next time she calls my phone it is either going to be for a divorce or for reconciliation.
Her behavior has been so not her I have really had a hard time even believing that my sweet and formerly down to earth wife could have become such a selfish diva.
Unfortunately in the state we lived in, there is no such thing as "legal separation" Would anyone recommend I send her divorce papers as a way to spur her into action? I have already filled out a "complaint for divorce" form with her as the plaintiff. This way it shows her as the one that wants the divorce. Would it be a bad idea to send it to her?
It seemed like we were so close to working it out until now. When do I reach the point of just being pathetic for holding on in my heart?
