Tough day today for me - depressed, not sure why. Oh hell, of course I do know why, I was doing great all week because I didn't see my W and then I had to briefly talk to her cold, emotionless self while picking up my son.
I let her get to me, again. A great week undone by 15 minutes. D*MN IT!
This does show me that dark/dim helps my PMA - a LOT.
Tom--I guess the only difference here is that I am divorced and you are in the process. So sorry that you are now dealing with another horrible circumstance. It is all about them getting the attention that they want. How weird that we both find out in the same week.
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
Right now I'm in Atlantic City for work this week. I'm having fun; not gambling though. In the middle of some new and exciting programs with work benefiting the aviation industry.
W had some major bleeding Sunday; she's watching the kids at my house this week. She supposed to know today if the baby appears viable. I'm starting the settlement paperwork this week. A friend of mine thinks the W isn't done with me yet; but I'm through. I need to move on from this.
I've never posted to you before, or even on this side, but I had to say something.
This is NOT a tubal pregnancy. I had an ectopic pregnancy and unless she's got a TWIT for a doctor, they don't just say, oh hopefully it's not and move on to wait for a US. It IS emergency surgery so the mother doesn't die along with the baby. I am offended that she would have the gumption to even say the words. There are women out there who have lost their lives to this sort of pregnancy, and its sad she made it up. I lost my son due to an ectopic and it's not to be taken lightly............
SO< 1 of 2 things. OUTRIGHT LIE!!! OR, she does have a twit for a doctor and her life is in jeopardy EVERY day she carries her child in the tube........ Its horrible and very sad cause unfortunately the baby can not be saved. BUT< HER life can if this is the case. Mine went undetected and I almost died, this is nothing to be taken lightly.
SO SORRY you have to deal with that. Seems to horrible to even fathom to me. But, IF there is ANY chance it is ectopic, then SOMEONE needs to step in and her her to a hospital now! Really, tell her parents, whomever, cause ectopic pregnancies you do not wait around for.
Hey Mish..no new thread..I did drop off the radar. It's baseball season and I've been very involved with that and a new project at work that has kept me busy.
Just an update since I'm here...and some might want to know. W is still pregnant. We can't get divorced until after the baby is born. At that time, if OM signs birth certificate; I'm free. Otherwise, it's sperm count and a paternity test. I had a vasectomy back in Sept. 2004. We're friendly, she's been helping out more with the kids. But I'm sure a lot of that has to due with the fact that OM has left her. He says that he will take care of his responsiblities.
She mentioned again that she thinks that God wants us to work on our M and that she was willing if I was willing. I told her, "No." I wasn't interested. If she was wanting to reconcile for the right reasons, maybe; but I know it was a proposal for a matter of convenience for her. OM has left her, she's pregnant and no one to take care of her. But, for me, our ship has sailed. In order for her to become a healthy individual and walk closer to God; I really feel that bailing her out will not benefit her in the long run. She needs to suffer the consequences of her actions and live without a man (which she self-admits that she has never done)!
Diane...if she ever had an ectopic pregnancy; she doesn't now. I believe it was a ruse to explain away a possible termination which she was considering early on. She probably only told me about the pregnancy because she knew that I would see the insurance EOBs. Now I'm not totally convinced that she's NOT keeping the baby just to punish the OM for him leaving her. Evidently, he got tired of the lying long before I ever did. LOL
Thanks for checking in on me guys...It's been healthy to be away.
