I guess this is why I am here. To gain insight. I will take a deep breath and do nothing for a day or so.
I do not want to punish anyone, certainly not myself or my children. I will read the books again tonight (read twice so far with notes). I will be patient.
I will seek out Puppy's sitch and learn. My feeling of mutual exclusivity is that is how I think W will react. I guess I need to stop thinking in her shoes and start living in mine. I'm getting there and can tell myself that, but to act is still a work in progress.
Keep me straight, that is why I am here. You have no idea how much I appreciate your words. Please keep them coming.
Me - 35 W - 32 (EA with OM) M - 13 1/2 D - 11 S - 9 ILYBNILWY - January 2009 Status - Limbo
