Apparently, for answering the above question from me (which has been deleted), Ali is now banned from this site. It's a string going back to what I've called the Valentine's Day Exodus of 2008.
So refer to other sites / discussion groups at your own risk, here.
You'll be missed, Ali-girl, and for what it's worth, I'm sorry I inadvertantly opened THAT can of worms again.
Bagheera
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
