Thanks DQ. Yeah, I guess we do have really BIG problems, otherwise I wouldn't be here. I just wish I could come up with something very SUBTLE, that he wouldn't think was completely out of the norm, that might get a rise out of him. Something I could do, that, maybe he wouldn't even notice overtly as being flirtatious, that could help me judge his "interest". Does that make any sense? And if he were to respond positively, that might make me a bit more comfortable to "push the envelope", so to speak.