Yeah and my ex did the same.. left everything, we had a whole house full of stuff, chosen/bought together, some of it his doing/choice but he left the lot. He was agonised over even taking a pillow and duvet set but I was super ok about that, so he relented, with a pained look on his face. Thats all he took, that and what he came into the R 9 years ago with.. his stereo, a box of photos pre-our R, books and clothes.. oh and half his cd's. Dont want to 'disrupt' us too much I guess.

So... when you say you hugged and kissed, do you mean, he kissed your cheek, as friends, or was it a full on tongue sarnie !? Seems he is comfortable to hang out with you ! Sounds like you had a really good evening with him.

Al x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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