I did just indirectly expose EA to OMW, to which she discussed with OM and flat out rejected the suggestion. I jumped the gun prior to your return - my apologies.
Haven't see the fallout yet, however, I did my thing and will not push it further.
At a minimum, the OM knows that 'someone' is on to him.
I think my bigger concern is that W continues to find some fault in anything that I do and badmouths me to her friends and family. She never shows her anger or annoyance with me directly. This concerns me, not that she is laying the ground of me as the bad guy so that if things work out with OM she is justified, but rather that she is purposely withholding any negative feelings toward me and flatly lying that she has any ill feelings toward me to my face.
Side note: I'm reading 'No More Mr Nice Guy' and it is an awakening for me -- to the point of changing my handle to "MrNiceGuy". :-/