Are you thinking of 'flabbergasted'?

So you feel that he sees you as a check-off mark on his to-do list, it that about right?

"Oops, didn't talk to Maria yesterday. Here, I will call her for 90 seconds, sound happy, make a joke or something, apologize--check. Now i am good to go for the day..." That must stink, actually I know from experience that it feels pretty awful...

Sorry sis. Want to come to Disney with me? I could kick H out of the trip and put you in, and add your kids?? \:\) Our resort is Carribbean Pirate-themed!

Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17