H called. We havent talked since he left on Sunday noon. I pick up and he sounds chipper and upbeat and he says "hey you, hi!!" So I reply calmly and he continues :"sorry I didnt call yesterday,(pauses) I was busy at work...".
He hasnt seen the pie yet or my few comments. The GUY tells me he is SORRY he didnt call because he is BUSY at work. A PHONECALL!!!!! 2 minutes phonecall he couldnt make to his wife.!!! How does that sound?
I am not mad or anything. I am wondering what Bworl and the rest of you will say. I hope you understand what I mean when I will admit I was deeply hurt. My H, who is supposed to want to reconcile with me, wasnt trying to make a point by not calling as I thought. He just was...busy. Very, very hurt, indeed. I am flumbergeisted or "somthing- geisted" as T used to say.... Am I the weird one? I am out of ideas and ways to approach this. He sounded "caught" guilty and I am sure when we got off the phone he felt he has done his duty... I am [censored] duty. Nothing else. K
For the record : I didnt whine, nag, acted mad or anything. We proceeded to arrange tomorrow schedule cause he will pick up the kids since my dad goes for some tests. K
