Ive now seen a soliciter and apparently he has one instructed too.We are due to exchange financial details prior to settlement on 22nd.My heart is truly broken-all our dreams and 29 years togetherness reduced to practicalities. I know he is feeling the same- guilty too despite being with OW. Am so tempted to write and say I can forgive everything except his ashamed silence and withdrawal at the end.Snodderly , you are right I long for closure and a final goodbye ;this is all wrong.
