Silence. Standing 2 feet apart, not looking @ each other, neither willing to breach the silence.
Act as if - her attitude, silence, anger whatever it is, will have no bearing on your happiness. Break the cycle, lead by example. What do you do in the Army? I spent 9 yrs in the AF, radar nav on B-52s. Graduated from The Citadel in '86 we had loads of Army pukes in my class. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.