In a weird twist,my attorney wants to meet with STBXs attorney and SmarmyLawyerBossParamourAttorney. He wants to use the meeting as leverage in alimony decision. He is under the impression that the affair is on the "down low" and that Smarmy wants to keep it that way from all of the other attorneys in his office that STBX manages, not to mention his wife! He wants to tell Smarmy that he may need to be deposed! Could backfire, but seems like a bold move.