Next time you do something and she says, boy I wish you could have done that 2 years ago, ask her, next time would you like me to give you a call before I go and come with?
Burt
Actually she did say that she would like for me to invite her on activities. One example that she gave was that she would like to come meet me and my workout buddies after we work out at a little grill that we frequent. The second week of our separation she met us up there and we had some good laughs. It does take a lot out of me when we leave our separate ways. The state of limbo isn't very fun to say the least.
That is where I am torn with detaching or inviting her to these occasions. It seems like two different approaches and I see pros with both.
I sure hope my books get here today!
M 30 WAW 29 T 15 M 5 ILYBNILWY 3/8/09 Separated 3/14/09
