I'm contimually learning... I thought I have been doing a pretty good job. Oh well, I don't think much damage was done. Hope not anyway.
It is hard to keep the emotions in check, especially since I don't have the benefit of my own house and home. That, and our children (should I say "my children"?) are there with their mom, and it almost seems as though she claims ownership to them...or that they belong MORE to her than to me. It seems as though I can only see them under her rules. Come at this time, you have them until that time, etc... I feel VERY excluded from any family decisions.
Maybe it's time to go back to the DB counselor to establish some new rules and schedules.
Me: 46 W: 46 M: 9.5 yrs D4, D9 D filed by her 11/3/08 Agrees to try rec at mediation 1/28/09 Says she still wants D in counseling 3/25/09 W and I back in DB counseling (!) 8/20/09 3rd Bomb 9/2/09