I do not see any backfires at all, all positive. The grass is not always greener. Next time you do something and she says, boy I wish you could have done that 2 years ago, ask her, next time would you like me to give you a call before I go and come with?
She is scared, but i definitely would not rule out the OM scenario, but if she is telling the truth, BIG IF, then it all sounds very positive to me.
If she does not want to go to MC that is OK, just go with the flow man, you are doing great!
One of the great things about my wife and my MC is she has learned that Men in general are stupid and realizes that she actually has to tell me things for me to understand what she needs.
By the way it is not too early to detach and gal, which I think you are doing great, you have already peaked her interest in the first couple of weeks with the art fair and so forth! Maybe go to a play, boy that would set her off!
