The Disney trip was something I was planning to do myself with the kids. Dan said he wanted to go b/c he didn't want to miss the first time our D went to Disneyworld.
Well, his choices show something different no? He IS gonna miss a lot more if he continues. And you cant be offering to him alternative solutions that will ease the guilt he probably feels.
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
I am already screwed on that this week. We are decorating Easter eggs tonight and he told the kids he would come over and do eggs with us. So I have to be here unless I want to miss out on that, which I don't.
My H started "thinking" only after I stopped initiating and allowing family time together. I dont think it was a coincidence. Of course not everybody responds the same, I am just saying... K
