KerryK...I love the revisionist story as well. Last year...during the heat of this...my W complained to me about OUR HONEYMOON. We spent 10 glorious days in Hawaii and on the way back, we stayed at the brand-spanking-new Bellagio Hotel in Las Vegas to break up the long journey home. We stopped there on the way back to hook up with my whole family for my mother's 75th BD party. We gambled. We ate, danced...had a great time.

8-9 years later she tells me how horrible it was...that we had to be with my family on her honeymoon...that my family dictated everything AFTER WE WERE ALONE IN HAWAII FOR 10 QUIET AND INTIMATE DAYS...THE MOST ROMANTIC TIME FOR BOTH OF US.

Revisionist history indeed. They have to say this to keep their head straight re: their decisions.

If your exW talks about going back to Thailand...I'd buy her the plane ticket. LOLOL.

Anyway, for the life of me, I can't understand why anyone would make the move your XW did. Just continue to take care of yourself and your kids. I don't know how you do it...stay in such close contact with him either.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;