MLCers, in my opinion, tend to view things as two or three (or even more) year battles to be endured while the spouse in MLC eventually "comes out of it." It's just all about how to DEAL with them in the meantime.

I think Newcomers is best for newbies and gets the most traffic (altho MLC gets a ton, too), and Infidelity is best when there is an affair involved, because the strategies and tactics need to be slightly different.

Puppy