To get ideas of how to get him to go: start by going to the counselor, pastor, and doctor yourself. Tell them what's going on and ask them to help you figure out if he does need to come in and if so, how you can help that process along.
You may need to enlist the help of friends. You may need to be the one. The pastor or the doctor might call. There are other options as well, but I don't know them all. I just know that what you posted sent chills down my spine and you need to explore those options.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."