Polly, I am not familiar with your sitch. A wise man used to tell ask a while ago and i am paraphrasing: "are you in or are you out?" Well once you have that answer and more often than not it is oin, than act accordingly or rather try putting the chances on your side.....that is where the book comes in. Another wise man used to tell me or remind me on a regular basis to saty positive. Good things happen to good people. I believe that ....eventually the tide will turn. Be good Polly!
SoTired...without knowing your sitch at all, if i may, one quick comment....this is a long battle....a maraton , not a sprint. If you have reasons to be angry (and most of us on here do), let that anger out .... find an outlet ..a punching bag like Kerry uses at the Gym...run like BBJ... Secondo, this is not contardictory; do not think too far ahead. You will realize that we go through speed bumps. Eventually you will find the smooth road...with or without your W. Keep your mind on the goal and stand up for what is right...to you. K, I am not at the point where a little "tonic for my wounded soul" will knock me out. Quite the contrary, I am sleeping less.