thank you so so much guys for your response means the world to me, this is my first time on here sandi2, ive joined the gym for some time and i try and do things on a weekend, like i said we do talk now and its never about us always about work and kids and finances, she did bring up us once and when she did she cried her heart out, i just listened. she also told me that she dosent want a divorce, dont know wht the hell is going on, some stuff she said to me during the first 3 days of her walk out was awful, i did bring a few of these things up in coversation and she said i dont remember saying any of those things, so ive just left it at that. the night she told me she dosent want a divorce i asked her does she need a hug as she was so upset she said yes please and was heartbroken holding me tight, she then said i wanted to ask for 1 but i was scared you would regect me, im getting so many mixed signals, do you guys think i should carry the texts and friendly chats? or do i cut her dead? her mother and i are very close and we always contact each other, she also said she thinks this is a mlc, if it is it could last years and i wont be able to last that long. i have asked about MC but she refuses point blank,

need to ask adice on this to,
my son well step son lives with me beacuse he said this is is home, now when he was 3 yrs old his dad walked out on him to be with OW, i met my wife and took on dad role it was difficult but we got there, i love him as i would my own, he still had contact with his dad on some weekends, at 12 his dad died in a motorbike accident, then 12 months later he found out his step mum had taken his brother and sister to live in california, we live in england. he found out on facebook, beacuse she posted a video of her getting married over there, then his grandad died and now his mum has left him, we also had some more bad news last night his other grandad his dads dad died of a massive heart attack, im really worried about all this, and what it might do to him in his adult life,
ive been called into school beacuse he is disruptive to female tutors, all the male tutors love him but he has a real problem with the females, i know this stems for the 2 most important women in his life have both let him down badly. thanks again guys