We are splitting the cost of the mortgage. She is covering all utilities and luxuries of the house.
Originally Posted By: stuck808
In terms of her blaming you for being controlling. That's a theme that a lot of WASs have. Some true, some not. My W accused me of being the same and I believed her until I "woke up" and figured out that she was controlling me.
Yeah, my response to that realization was that I asked for a divorce. The shock of ME asking for the D set her back for about a week, then returned to her foggy passive-aggressive anger.
Originally Posted By: stuck808
Sometimes the WAS blames the LBS for shortcomings or faults that they see in themselves. They actually transfer all their insecurities to the LBS. It's very typical.
Hmmm... I'll have to observe that and see if it follows her blame and behavior.
Originally Posted By: stuck808
Your W now is cake eating. Take charge and get your life back.
I'm GALing and DBing, but not sure I am at the point or even know HOW to 'take charge and get my life back'.... yet. Perhaps my DB coach will have some insight in a few weeks.
