Oh yeah, that I know. I've been reconnecting with friends and we have reinstated guys night where we go shoot pool or throw darts. Got back into the gym and have lost 21lbs so far and am starting to play competitive volleyball again. It's a lot of fun and I realize that I gave up a lot of what I enjoy and lost "myself" after our daughter was born and the W went back to school. No matter what I'm not going to lose that again. I'm pretty sure that is part of what led me to this point in my R. I don't want my old marriage back. I want a new marriage...a better one. I realize now that neither one of us was happy in our marriage and I know it could be better. She may not but I do. Sounds like you are doing great in your GAL. And I'm sure he notices. In my sitch it seems like initially it draws them in and then they pull away again probably because they don't trust it. What are your thoughts on that? Has he had any reactions good or bad?
