WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 6

[MrBond]

Seriously, I would have her go to anger management class. I don't think it's anger, it's probably more like frustration.

What on earth is she constantly angry about? She has to figure that out and stop blaming you. Even the stuff about you not getting up early enough on the weekends. She should have just said something then. Period. It's not your fault and mind reading is not part of M.

"Before we went in she said going every week is getting to be too much. She feels nothing new is being brought up so she wants to go every other."

Cut her free from the C. She's just going to keep getting angrier about going as she feels like she's being "forced" to go. Let her free from it before she starts blaming you for "making" her go.

"Our counselor said we need to get comfortable expressing our emotions, not at a personal attack level but just the true emotion."

I would change this to "get comfortable expressing what you want". Emotions don't rule everything. Expressing what you want does.

"She said she's still angry and doesn't want to be around me which is why she wants to leave. She said she's going into 2 years of debt to set up her place (oh oh I need to call my lawyer about that one). She said if she wasn't so mad, she wouldn't do something like that"

I would have stopped her right there. You see how she's blaming you for everything? Even putting her in debt. Stop her and get her facts straight. You can't keep being treated like a doormat. Women don't respect the doormat, they just scrape their sh*t on it. There's your 2x4.

Don't be afraid to show her that or else she's going to start taking more stuff from you and then when you protest, she's going to go back to her victim mode.

That's pretty much all I heard in your car conversation. Her being the victim.