Accelerated divorce due to OM...normal?

[sweet-1]

Her family has closed up ranks which usually means there's an "internal" problem that needs to be dealt with. Her last three Facebook status updates are "missing the sunshine", on her weekend with the kids, "hoping for sunshine this weekend", last weekend sans kids, and today "THANKFUL for the sunshine". When we started dating, my code name (game we played) was candy, spin on my last name, and hers was Whisky, as in I need some..... Anyway I'm gonna guess by the familial silence and today's angry email about selling the house etc, that OM wasn't as warmly recieved as she had hoped. I was liked by them (F-I-L was crabby but still seemd to like me). Basically a couple of the nephews were gonna quit school and go work the rigs etc. I made them a deal that if they brought me diplomas I would get them jobs way easier and better paying than the rigs...They did and I held up my end, My one nephew actually makes more than me per month, until you factor hours and expenses.

Long story short, I suspect (and I hope..is that wrong), that the big reveal wasn't a success.

And yes PDT, I agree, it isn't my mess and I will not pay to clean it up. I guess she was complaining about maxxing her CC's (separate from mine) and being broke. laptops and flying to the coast twice can't be cheap...neither can hiding your money with overpayments. Unfortunately, I'm closing the gap quickly as far as running out of money as well.

It's funny It seems like it's been a year already, but infact it's only been a few days over 5 mos.

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