Hey RTL,
I would like to add a few experiences on the dating front if I may. When it comes to questions regarding past relationships, I try not to badmouth the ex. However, i am always honest and if the lady does not like it for whatever reason, well better to end it early than later. I figure if i am myself and am being honest and she deos not like what she hears than so be it....there are plenty of other women out there that will knock your socks off. No rush anyways.....
I think you have the right attitude when you say "her loss".