The adventure continues--part 2

[PortlandDad]

Patience.

I can't stress it enough. You really do need to have the patience of Job in this sitch. We guys are hard-wired for action: if we are sitting still waiting for more than 1 minute it seems, we get bored and try to 'force' something to happen. Believe me, this is one sitch where 'forcing' it is counter-productive.

Detach. Detach. Detach.
So easy to say, so hard to do!
Get that ice-water in your veins.
Its water off a duck's back.
PMA.
Don't obsess.
Don't think.

Man, I feel for you so badly. I've been there. Less than two months ago. I felt like I need to DO something, ANYTHING. It was a mistake!

I need some soprano singer to follow me around and sing out
MIIIIIISSSSSSSSTTTTTTTTTTTAAAAAAAAAAKKKKKKKKKKKKKKEEEEEEEEEEEE! at the top of his girly voice whenever I am about to try and force something with my W. Each time I tried, I ended pushing her further away and damaging my R with her further and further. I started healing when I stopped pushing and stopped focusing on her.

You can do it! Take back the initiative in your R!