Stop emailing her. She may be using it agaisnt you.. and its ridiculous to deal with the co-parenting of G through email. Just ignore her.. if you need to speak to her about Grace, pick up the phone, be normal.. if you get her answer machine, so be it, leave a messae. You dont have to Db her anymore, you can relax and be yourself.
If she wont/cant talk to you.. I would suggest some kind of mediation, or family therapy. She is being TOTALLY controlling, cant you see that? She is angry, bitter and resentful and you are still allowing her to yank your chain. I really think you need to let go of your need to 'prove' to her she is wrong and you are a good guy. Sadly, in her eyes, you are the devil incarnate and all of his henchmen rolled into one.
I also think you could be right.. she is amassing evidence to use against you.. and how terribly sad if that is her agenda. So no more texts, or emails.. and when you DO speak, make sure you say very little and dont get drawn in to admitting anything, in case she is recording what you are saying also (wouldnt put it past her).
Seriously, stop running scared and going along with what SHE wants.. man up! Be yourself! Tell her to go f*ck herself! .. sorry, that last one just slipped out, ignore that bit, lol.
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
