I second that motion, Jon. It may not sound very Christian or even very nice, but to tell you the truth, Amy, I am glad you said all of that to him. He needed to hear it. He should be so ashamed of lying and cheating and trying to hide all of that stuff he bought and taking his children to his GF's house and doing everything he has done. Yes, he needed to hear it from you b/c if anything, you have been too good to him throughout this entire ordeal. I think you gave him a 2x4 right where he deserved it. I just want to add one thing.......you have told him more than once to take care of himself......I don't really see the need to do it anymore, do you? That was a good way to end it and you certainly don't owe him anything. I'm not telling you to be a b*tch to him, but I think you know what I'm saying. You are such a sweetie that you get into a "habit" of telling him to take care of himself (IMHO) and you just need to stop.....LOL. Kind of like I told Tawyna about us saying "I'm sorry" so much.

Frankly, I'm glad you got him told off and maybe letting off that steam will help you move on and heal some more now.

Love,
Sandi


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!